We’re in desperate need of any help and advice, if anyone knows of similar cases can you please get in touch (trinity.deja at googlemail.com), via Trinity Dejavu in Secondlife or trinity0002d on YIM.
I’m a uk cit, pre-op male to female transexual, I have had no surgery at this point and have been living full time for the last 2 years.
I changed my name and title in the UK 2 years ago by deed poll then when applied for a passport the UK office asked for a letter concerning my op status. My GP wrote me a letter saying “to the best of my knowledge, this person intends to transition fully” this got me a F gender marker on my passport.
My birth certificate stills says M.
I wish to marry my US born female partner and immigrate to live together in the US.
Can we do this? (as im still M everywhere except passprt)
Will I be treated as M or F for marriage and immigration purposes? Will I be seen as M for one and F for the other?
I really need all the help I can get on this, were tearing our hair out not knowing if we can stay together. We dont want to live in the UK (even though that would be simpler).
Update : To Rachel who commented below, Please get in touch - We really need to talk to the people involved as there case could really help us.
rachel
July 20th, 2008 01:11 elong story short, according to my friend Nikki who did the same. You’re still federally considered male as your birth cert says so. You can legally marry her due to the above. Nikki did the same.
Likewise, we need contact information for people with similar cases, this would be an amazing help!







long story short, according to my friend Nikki who did the same. You’re still federally considered male as your birth cert says so. You can legally marry her due to the above. Nikki did the same.
Rachel! Please get in touch trinity.deja at googlemail.com - We really need to talk to the people involved as there case could really help us.
California and Massachussettes are the best states in the U.S. to live since same sex marriages are legal there now. Even in Florida where I live and it’s not so tg/ts friendly, changing your gender legally can take as little as two weeks and costs under $200. My former roomate had a very easy time getting her driver’s license and other legal documents changed. Go for it and good luck!